Sp/So

Self-preservation-dominant, Social second — you're grounded and community-minded — you secure your own needs, then tend to your group.

In depth

• Leading instinctself-preservation — you want your base solid first: money, health, home, a life that won’t wobble.
• Second instinctsocial — once you’re steady you turn outward, becoming the reliable one your circle leans on.
• Blind spotthe one-to-one charge. Merging hard with a single person feels destabilising, so you keep a little back.
• At your bestthe person who quietly has everything handled — practical, generous, the one who brings the spare coat.
• Watch-outcomfort and duty can crowd out passion; you can build a safe life that nobody, including you, feels much in.

Leads with self-preservation (safety, comfort, health and resources), backed by social (belonging, standing and the group). Sexual (one-to-one) comes last.