So/Sp

Social-dominant, Self-preservation second — you're community-minded and practical — you read the group while keeping yourself stable.

In depth

• Leading instinctsocial — you read the room by reflex: who’s in, who’s drifting, where you stand.
• Second instinctself-preservation — you keep your own life stable enough to keep showing up for everyone else.
• Blind spotthe charged one-to-one. Intensity with a single person feels excessive, even a bit embarrassing.
• At your bestthe steady civic soul — the one who organises, includes, remembers, and holds a group together.
• Watch-outa life of roles and duties can leave you fluent in the group and a stranger to your own hunger.

Leads with social (belonging, standing and the group), backed by self-preservation (safety, comfort, health and resources). Sexual (one-to-one) comes last.