
The 6 Instinctual Variants
So/Sx
The Connector
Social-dominant, Sexual (one-to-one) second — you're community-minded and magnetic — you move between belonging and intense one-to-one connection.
In depth
- Leading instinctsocial — belonging, contribution, and being part of something that matters.
- Second instinctsexual — you want the charge too: the friend who’s a true intimate, the cause that grips you.
- Blind spotself-preservation. Sleep, money, and your own body come last, and it shows.
- At your bestmagnetic and committed — you draw people to a shared thing and make it feel electric.
- Watch-outyou burn for the group and the person, and forget the one who has to get up tomorrow: you.
Leads with social (belonging, standing and the group), backed by sexual (one-to-one) (charge, intensity and the pair bond). Self-preservation comes last.
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