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Attachment Compatibility Chart

How the four attachment styles tend to fit in a relationship — read through the two axes behind them (anxiety and avoidance) and the classic pursue-withdraw dynamic. The most directly relationship-relevant lens. Indicative, for insight.

SecureAnxiousDismissiveFearful
Secure88737373
Anxious73523636
Dismissive73365050
Fearful73365050
Lower matchNatural fit

A transparent, indicative score — it names some tailwinds and headwinds, it doesn't decide anything. Any two types can build a great relationship. ← All compatibility systems